Friday, August 29, 2014

REACH - Five Minute Friday


There are times when I just want to bail.  Not bail forever, just to get a sanity break from all my crazies (I mean, dear children). When I had toddlers, (still have 1 out of 3), other Mamas with grown children would say they would go back to the toddler-chaos in exchange for the drama that comes with older children.

But let's face it.  All the stages are hard.  Parenting is HARD.  All of it.  But it's all simply amazing right along with the hard.  The hard is worth it.

Soon there will be no tiny bodies to cuddle, because they won't fit in my lap.

Soon there will be no screams for Mommy, because they will be in college and married and driving and won't need me like they use to.

Soon there will be silence.  Silence.  The thing I crave most now, I'll desperately miss all too soon.

So, weary Mama, try to live in the moment with me?  I'm right here in the trenches with you.  Deep in the mud of whining and fighting and mouths to feeds and bottoms to wipe and boo boo's to mend.

Try not to wish away today but relish in the memories that you will create if you are present.  No one can REACH the heart of your children like YOU.  

Yes YOU.  The one who feels anything but adequate.  The one who feels like a failure most of the time.  The one who has made it to Friday, all drained and emotional.  I see your warm tears streaming down your face, because, mine are flowing at the same time.  

It's okay to be weary.  But don't try to do it alone.  You have a parenting manual- it's called God's Word.  Run to the feet of Jesus.  

A warm cup of coffee might save you in the moment, 
but God's Word will uphold you for a lifetime.

The other night, after all the children were tucked in bed and I had sunk into the cozy brown couch and let out that sigh of relief.... I hear my soon to be three year old yell for Mama.  Who?  Who's that, I don't know her.  She's off duty.  

I begrudgingly climbed up to the stairs and went into his room.  He quietly REACHED for me with his no-longer-baby-arms and wrapped his soft arms around my neck and didn't let go.  That was a moment I'll never forget.  I knelt beside his bed and just enjoyed the moment for what it was.  I chose to be present, and I loved every moment.

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Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Fruit-Full Kids Giveaway (All 4 Plate Sets)

THIS GIVEAWAY IS NOW CLOSED.  RANDOM.ORG PICKED 
JILL HUDSON AS THE WINNER!




As I promised in my review of the Fruit-Full Kids products a couple weeks ago, here is the giveaway.  It will be easy entries.  I won't even ask you to dump ice water over your head.

As a mother of three young kids, I just know you will love these!  Enter below.  If you don't have young kids, maybe you know some in your life?  (Grand children, nieces, nephews, friend's kids, etc).

With so much negative influence that our kids get fed, isn't it time to FEED THEM some more of God's truth?!

Enter below.  Winner will be chosen next Monday (Labor Day).

Quote from Fruit-Full Kids facebook page:


C.S. Lewis writes, 
“Do not waste time bothering whether you ‘love’ your neighbor; act as if you did. As soon as we do this we find one of the greatest secrets. When you are behaving as if you loved someone you will presently come to love him.”

I think the secret Lewis is talking about is this; 
start with behavior modification, 

BUT THEN LET THE HOLY SPIRIT CHANGE YOUR HEART.


1) Leave a comment telling me why you would love these plates and leave a way for me to reach you if you win. (If you have trouble commenting, just use the anonymous option and tell me who you are.)

Bonus comment 2) Like Fruit-Full Kids on facebook.

Bonus comment 3) Follow Fruit-Full Kids on twitter.

Bonus comment 4) Follow Fruit-Full Kids on instagram.

Bonus comment 5) Anywhere you share this will earn comment entry.




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